Friday Link Sharing #3

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It’s Friday morning and that can only mean one thing.  It’s time to share a link!!  Ok, it can mean other things, but I really don’t think the ceiling fan was engineered to support that kind of weight…

Have you ever felt overwhelmed with work but didn’t know how to respond professionally?  We all know that burnt out people do much less work than those who have reasonable demands on their time, but we don’t always have the appropriate words to express our feelings and make sure we are doing our part in managing our own workload.  Mashable has some suggestions for us all: http://mashable.com/2015/01/29/drowning-in-work/?utm_cid=mash-com-fb-main-link?#rbDa_ygPO5qO

Have a great Friday and may your day be TIFU free (Ah, Internet lingo, how I love thee).

Cheers to a great weekend ahead!

Friday Link Sharing #2

It’s Friday and that can only mean one thing.  It’s time to share a link!!  Well, it can mean other things, but wishing for it won’t make it so.  Get out there and do it!

This week’s link gives you lots to watch during your time off with the top 25 holiday movies, as rated by Rotten Tomatoes.  http://editorial.rottentomatoes.com/guide/best-christmas-movies/    Yes, Die Hard IS a holiday movie and anyone who thinks different is wrong!

As a bonus, watch this awesome video to get you in the spirit of the season.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTLAx3VDX7g

Have a great weekend and holiday season!!  May the force be with you and your family.

Friday Link Sharing – #1

Caroling with Yoda

 

It’s Friday and that can only mean one thing.  It’s time to share a link!!  Well, it can mean other things, but sometimes bacon isn’t the answer.  Rarely, I admit, but sometimes…

 

This week’s link was going to be something completely different, but a typo in an earlier email gave me some inspiration.  This is a TED talk I watched with the family last night:  https://www.ted.com/talks/al_seckel_says_our_brains_are_mis_wired?language=en  – Our brains are interpretive wonders, but, as Plato said, our senses deceive us.  There are lots of cool things to learn at Mind Hacks as well.  My daughter recently started to get interested in these as she showed me how to find our blind spot.  Very cool.

As a bonus, check out Amazon.ca’s holiday deals.  There are new ones every day and Christmas is only TWO WEEKS away!  With the lack of snow, getting in to the spirit has been more challenging.

Have a great weekend!!

 

People Network

GangCubaIn computer networks, connectivity is key.  If your computer is not connected to a network, you are pretty limited.  The amount you can do is generally proportional to the nodes you can talk to.  This is the beauty and power of the internet.  Our work and personal lives are the same. We need people around us, some close and some farther away, to do great things.

Sure, there have been solitary geniuses who have made great impacts on the world, but even they had parents, mentors, nemeses and people surrounding them who amplified their work to the point we know of it today.  These are exceptions though.  We need our social networks, virtual and, more importantly, in reality.  The people who surround us make us better.  The magical synergies you hear about?  They are real.  Of course, it is very important to be somewhat selective about who you let in to the circle of trust.  Simon Sinek talks about this at length in his books.  And, if Jim Rohn is right and you are the average of the five people you surround yourself with, it is worth taking a few minutes, at the very least, trying to figure out who that should be.

Personally, I have only a few close friends, but keep thinking about how to broaden my circle.  I work remotely a lot of the time and know that I need to take advantage of the myriad meet-ups, neighbourhood activities and conferences that pop up.  Also, being a good neighbour and having a drink with the people that live around me would be a good thing as well.  I won’t get in to the culture of ignoring those in the next house that seems to be pervasive in suburbia, but I am at a loss to explain why we live so closely if we don’t want anything to do with being part of the collective.  It is bizarre.  Overall, I think we have lots of opportunity and need to take the time to be part of the community.  There are more benefits to the social aspect than what we get from simply paying our municipal taxes.  The opportunities abound, but we need to make the leap in to them with a broad smile and open mind.

Next, social media is a great builder / maintainer of bridges.  Facebook brought me back in touch with my now fiancée and also with friends from childhood that bring a lot in to my life.  Sure, you can sit back and be a Facebook voyeur or chronic complainer, but those are the interactions to avoid.  More rare are the positive people who bring value to your life.  Those are the keepers.  They make you think differently and creatively.  They make your life better.  While most will use social media to stay informed and try to drink from the fire hose, which I am guilty of myself, they could do better to focus their attention and start to make a difference for themselves and others.  I admit, this is not an easy thing to do with the massive amount of content being delivered and our limited number of hours in a day.  That is why we should be selective and try to limit our choices.  I know, this is heresy.  Choice is good!  But it isn’t always good.  It distracts us from ever getting in to subjects at depth, where we can create value.  Our focus is a limited resource and the quicker we realize that and work with it, the more we will be able to do.

Bottom line, take a minute to think.  Take a minute to realize who is around you and what they bring to the table.  If they take more than they bring, maybe it is time to assess why you keep giving them your time and energy.  Then, you can look around and see if you can bring more to others’ table.  That is the relationship you want and will make life so much better for everyone and enable you to make your own dent in the universe.

Function over Fetching

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Mercator Map – Circa 1587

That is a map.  It is an old map.  At the time of this writing, you can buy this map for 8,500 Euros.   If you want to get anywhere, I don’t recommend it though.  Turns out, it’s wrong.  Pretty and expensive, but wrong.   We do the same thing with software, but those pieces of pretty, but dysfunctional software tend to get found out pretty quickly.  Then, we are left with something that looks good, but doesn’t do any good.

Over the past few years, I kept thinking how we needed to improve the user interface (UI) in corporate software.  Usability should be tied to to the visual allure, making tools more attractive to users.  It turns out I was wrong.  While it’s true users would like something simple, with clean lines and calming, or exciting, colours, they unanimously want something that works, and works efficiently first.  They want something that presents what they need to see in a logical manner without fluff.  Well, maybe some fluff.  Google search is the paragon of simplicity, but people still love the distractions of the logo changing and even becoming a game from time to time.  I just spent a few entertaining minutes going through Google Easter eggs myself.  Ok, it was two hours, but that only proves my point!

Today, I caught myself thinking about new web sites we have at work.  They are pretty and the design is very “clean”.  Nice big buttons with a Windows tile-like organization.  The problem is that 80% of the screen is empty space, the buttons are too big, we have to scroll too much and, to top it all off, it is slower than the old site.  So, not only are we stuck going through the pangs of change, but we have to contend with annoying scrolling and fidgety sub-menus to get anywhere.  It seems to be made for a tablet, easy to scroll and big buttons for fat fingers.  The issue is that most of us work on a laptop.  Viewing that page on a 14″ screen makes it look like I was only supposed to see the first menu. Then scroll, scroll, scroll and, OMG!, I found something!  Ok, I may be exaggerating for effect, but that’s not far off.  Then, we get in to the functionality, which has been inexplicably reduced, or maybe I am just slow to find things.  *Sigh*.    I will stop here since you would have to see it for yourself to really understand and I am pretty sure my superiors and other corporate security types would have a problem with that.

So, trying to learn the lesson and apply it to my own little fiefdom of applications, I have started to question functionality.  Does it do what it is supposed to?  How fast does it do it?  What is acceptable to the user?  What is really acceptable, but they don’t realize it?  Can we make a slimmer version with less fluff?  How does it look on the screen of an average user?  All these seem like logical questions and we all begin with the mantra of wanting to serve our customer.  But, over time, we start to adopt the Steve Jobs attitude of “customers don’t know what they want”.  This, again, is only partially right.  With innovation, I do believe that customers can be completely ignorant of what’s next and why it’s important.  In the end though, we end up figuring it out and more.  We, the customers, end up developing the next big thing by feeding back in to the system (#hashtags), mashing up the technology or even starting our own companies because we think we know better and can do better.  We become the makers.

Let’s just hope that, in the end, we learn our lesson and develop function first. Or, even better, go out and make an altogether different dent in the universe.

Funny Love

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This morning, I woke up with these two words floating in my head: Funny Love.  Yes, I decided that whatever was in my head when I woke up would be what I write about today.   Perhaps not the most thought out idea in the world…

First, I asked my 10 year old daughter what those words made her think of.  Her response was a typically pre-teen “I don’t know”.  I think she knows but doesn’t want to tell me.  She is smarter than that, but, in her defense, she was eating breakfast and still half asleep.  I will ask her again later.  …  Ok, it’s later.  She says it’s “someone who likes someone for something, but then he likes someone else and ends up not knowing who he wants”.  Yep, that’s pretty funny.  Not in a ha-ha kind of way, but in a “figure it out cowboy!” kind of way. Funny love is confusing.

Talking to her, it made me think of the silly things I have done to make her laugh in the middle of the grocery store that were just for her.  I didn’t care what other people thought of my weird singing and dancing in the pasta aisle.  It was for my three, four or five year old.  (Yes, this went on for a while. I am sure the grocery store employees saw me coming and focused the security cameras on me every time.)  This is what we do for the people we love.  We ignore everyone else and do things just for them.  Even if they would seem completely insane without the other person around.  Funny love is focused caring.

Then, I started thinking about my relationship.  I say and do some weird shit if they are taken without context, but to my significant other, they make complete sense.  They make her laugh, either because she finds it funny or just because she thinks I may indeed be a little crazy, and that makes it worth it.  To see your loved ones smile and laugh, that is where the gold is hidden.  Funny love is closeness.

Oh, and it turns out that laughter is a natural pain reliever.  It releases endorphins, the same way as exercise, runner’s high for example, which reduce your perception of pain.  So, if you happen to sprain your ankle and someone tells you to walk it off, maybe you would be better laughing it off.  Seems more fun anyway!  If funny reduces pain, then why not pair it with your love?  Funny love is more comfortable.

Whether it is confusing, caring, closeness or comfort, put some funny in your love.

PS: Thanks to The Graphics Fairy for the cool image of a heart.  🙂

 

 

 

I’m back!!

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After a few years away, I am back on the blog.  Last time was a tryout.  Yeah, that’s the ticket.  It was just a passing thought, a way to see if I really liked writing.  It turns out I do.  I feel like I have lots to share and don’t spend enough time doing it. I am awesome after all, so why not share the amazeballness with the world?!

I have been thinking about lots of stuff and will try to post something at least once a week.   I figure that gives me some leeway if I don’t find time or am lazy.  You know, normal hedging of the bets.

One thing that I can share right away is Energy Smart Show.  My better half at Maestro Events is putting it together with partners. This consumer show’s goal is to educate more people on the options to Save Money and Save The Planet.  It will also be building a community of like-minded people who want to share information and make our world a little bit better every day through reduced energy footprints.  Nobody likes an electric bigfoot trampling through their yard.  Oh… Electric Bigfoots (Bigfeet?).  Now, there is a subject for another time.  (Note to self:  Follow up on Electric Bigfoot.  Not the monster truck.  The Sasquatch.)

So, it turns out that thinking about something to write about before bed is probably a bad idea.  Sleep well little ones.  We shall meet again soon.

Being social

Relationships are very important in our everyday lives, at work and at home. I find that the better you get along with people and the easier you make it for them to work with you, the more willing they are. Everyone becomes more productive and understanding. This applies at home too.

Compared to many of my friends, I do much more socializing online using tools such as Facebook, Friendfeed, Twitter, etc. I find like minded people very easily and am able to spark up conversations about common interests. Being naturally introverted, I often find it difficult to do this in more open situations, at a bar for example. This is a great reason to attend Barcamps or Tweetups. At least you know that people share your interests and starting discussions will be much easier.  At work, I have much more in common with my fellow worker, but the culture in a large, long established company is different from what I gravitate towards, so it takes some work to identify those who share my passions.

So the big question becomes: How to make it better?  Well, there are probably many responses.  I tend to prefer just leaping in and asking a bunch of questions.  You just have to prepare yourself mentally and say that you really have nothing to lose.  If the person does not share your interests, perhaps there is some disappointment, but at least you know up front!   Curiosity pays off personally and professionally.  If you find that you are not comfortable or not feeling fulfilled, then you should start looking at other opportunities then figure out if it is worth the change.  There are many factors involved, so take the time to think about it!  🙂

Another rambling post is out there for better or worse! 😉

Stay interested and interesting!

John

Book

I really need to continue writing that book about our views on work and how it should be more than “just a pay check”. Motivational speakers talk about working with passion and it won’t feel like work. I realize this is not always possible, but we should at least TRY! I am tired of reading Twitter feeds, Facebook statuses and emails about how people hate their job and TGIF. Do something about it! See it differently! Make a change!

More to come. I wouldn’t want to reveal ALL my ideas for a book! 😉

Stay interested and interesting!

John

Values

I have been reading a lot about people’s values and have been tempted to call “bullshit” quite a few times.  Some like to bandy about values that include pride (A capital sin…), family and honesty.

First, pride is a sin for a reason and is often misinterpreted.  If you feel pride in something a friend or child does, what does that say about the rest of their actions?  Does that mean you don’t have that feeling all the time?  It is better to be pleased or happy about something.  I am very pleased when my daughter is polite and says please and thank you.  I am happy when she does well at soccer.  Having pride would be to live vicariously through her actions as if I am 100% responsible for her personality and actions.  I am but the guide, she is the actor.

Second, family is thrown around as an excuse and always talked up.  I agree that family is important if you have a great relationship with them and there is unconditional love.   Otherwise, they can do more harm than good.  We really need to work on the proper definition of family and people have to step up to the responsibility associated with being a family member.  I love my family and am very glad to have them around.  I admit that I am not always the best family member based on my own definition.  I know I can do better, but then I don’t preach to others what they should be doing or how the can be better.

Third, honesty is spoken about by many, but practiced by few.  There is value in diplomacy and tact.  I would love to hear people say what they mean and mean what they say.  I am sometimes disappointed with people who make commitments then back out because their mood has changed.  If you said you would go, GO!  If you said you would take care of something, take care of it!  I understand people forgetting sometimes (I am a pretty bad offender with memory…), but to intentionally cancel without a good reason is just mean and disingenuous.  I also abhor deliberately hiding information and feelings.  All it does is sow the seeds of discontent with each other.

In conclusion, be pleased, not proud, know your family and love them, be open and honest, don’t lie or hid information.  I hope I don’t sound like I am preaching, but simply stating what I think.  🙂

Stay interested and interesting!

John